Almost every adult, regardless of age, has two illusions: an illusion of control and an illusion of power of another adult. They appear in early childhood and can rule us for the whole life.
Illusion of control: Parents are really able to “control”, and they control the world surrounding children. This control becomes a part of our inner world, and we start leaning on it in all life situations.
Illusion of power of another adult: Power of an adult over a child, their needs and possibilities is very high. A baby explores itself and the world through the reflection in the mother, her feelings and actions. Then in the baby’s life appear father and other adults who make contribute in relationship, supporting it with norms of upbringing and social rules. An adult is represented powerful, with limitless possibilities.
When we are children, it works in many situations. But then we grow up and turn out to be in our parents’ place, but the inner faith in some other “powerful” adult remains. You have probably heard the joke: “I know I am a grown-up, but I suppose there are real adults somewhere else!”
We all were in situations when we were misunderstood, misheard, or when we had to do what we did not really want. We felt offended and hurt. And these negative emotions stay with us very long. Actually, emotions do not have statutes of limitations, they do not go anywhere. They just get out of our focus, but stay in muscles, organs, every cell of our bodies. Up to a certain point the body has enough resources to function with it, but external factors add stress and the body reaches the point.
Nature gave us incredible reserve forces that can recover damaged organs, grow new cells instead of dead ones, normalize body functions.
When we get ill, our body starts complicated, hidden processes. We know about them through such symptoms as temperature, cough, nausea, pain.
It is how our body kills pathogenic cells and gets rid of their waste products.
When we talk about a serious disease of treatment, additional help is necessary. We need to activate our brain recourses, which are responsible for reserve forces that help boost the efficiency of the treatment and fix the result.
Naturally: when a person lives without stress, follows health diet, breathes fresh air, has enough rest and works with pleasure. They can easily forgive offences, does not feel guilt and are confident in tomorrow. But how many people can tell the same about themselves?
The second way includes a course of psychotherapy.
The first question that appear in the head of the ill is “Why?”. There is no answer to this question and even if it were, it would not change anything.
The answer goes to the past, but life is going on now and here, to the future. Such questions as “For what?” and “What can I do with it?” open new possibilities even in such a difficult situation as oncology.
Doctors of our clinic are sure that in the majority of cases oncology with the use of modern medical treatment, including hyperthermia, PDT, targeted therapy, becomes a chronic disease. Therefore, there is a question about life quality, its sense and activation of the body’s own resources to boost and fix the efficiency of the treatment.
How and how long therapy will be is discussed individually. The patient becomes an active participant of this process since the moment of making a decision to consult a doctor!
To get a consultation/hospitalization in OOO “Onkoklinika” you should go to the clinic residence (oncology clinic) at the place of your and take a reference (057-U) with the signature of your treating doctor and the seal of the medical organization.
The manager contacts patients just after the concilium of doctors (every Thursday) where the specialists look through all the documents and make a decision about the necessary treatment.